Should I Give My Ex Another Shot?

There’s a ton of advice from Dating Experts on How to get back with your ex, but should you give them another shot?

1. Why did you Breakup?

Was the breakup messy (i.e. infidelity) or was it just bad timing (i.e. not being in the same place in life). No matter why you broke up, you need to communicate about why you broke up. If it was a messy breakup, you’ll have a lot to work on to forgive-and-forget. If you broke up because of abuse, restraining orders, theft, or property damage DO NOT GET BACK WITH THEM. PERIOD.

2.  Have your issues been Resolved?

Has the WHY of why you broke up been resolved? Have you forgiven or have you been forgiven? If you come into things with the same issues that split you up, I can guarantee the next go-round wont be any healthier or happier for either of you.

3. Are you currently on Good Terms?

If you saw this person walking down the street would you feel dread or excitement? You don’t need me to tell you what to do if you feel dread at the idea of seeing your ex, right?

4. Is it just the Sex?

Great Sex does not equal a Great Relationship. Great Sex helps a relationship, but it can’t be the foundation for one.

5. Are you Settling?

Some people simple can’t be without a relationship and if that’s the case, don’t get back with your Ex! If you’re one of those people, you need to get out of that mindset immediately. Your own worth cannot be tied to your success in dating. Be sure you’re getting back with them because you choose to, not because they’re a great fall back.

Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide if you should get back with your Ex, but I hope this helps with your decision.

Good Luck Out There.

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